Episode 26

Karin: Pitying Voldemort

Published on: 7th December, 2023

In this episode, Karin talks about incredibly difficult subjects, such as generational and sexual trauma, and yet is able to talk eloquently and with surprising empathy and groundedness.

Content Warning for talk about self harm and emotional, physical, religious, and sexual abuse, as well as rape. Also talk about genital disease and damage, and a mention of BDSM. I also recognize that hearing two trans folk talk about Harry Potter may be difficult for some.

Spoilers for Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood, Harry Potter, and A Very Potter Musical.

References:

Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood, anime show by Yasuhiro Irie

"Do not pity the dead, Harry, pity the living, and above all those who live without love." Dumbledore from Harry Potter: The Deathly Hallows

"And you think that killing people will make them like you, but it doesn't! It just just makes them dead." Voldemort to Quirrel in A Very Potter Musical, by Starkid

James Dobson: Conservative Evangelical leader who wrote books, did radio, other forms of media about traditional views on sexuality, gender roles, family, and discipline.

Acroynyms/Definitions:

BPD: Borderline Personality Disorder, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/borderline-personality-disorder

OCPD: Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/conditions/obsessive-compulsive-personality-disorder

Cluster B: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/cluster-b

Responding to internal stimuli: When someone is not responding to the world or people around them, but to what is internal, sometimes to hallucinations

Miracle Question: psychological tool where a client is asked to imagine what their world would look like if their problems were solved.

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Keep the Mess
Messy Conversations with Messy People
Conversations about dissociation and embodiment; how our experiences and identities shape our relationship with our bodies. Each episode shows how messy and beautiful it is to be human as we attempt to connect with ourselves and each other.

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Eden Alexander M

a Christian, a missionary kid, a queer transman, a creator, a student and survivor of mental illness, an addict in recovery; someone who chafes at the constraints of such boxes and labels